Puppy and adolescence

Online or in person puppy class: what fits you and your puppy?

An in person puppy class and an online puppy course both teach your puppy the basics, but in a completely different way: in person your puppy learns in a training hall with strange puppies, at the pace of the group; online you learn at home, at your puppy’s pace, with coaching at a distance. Which one is better depends on three things: how your puppy responds to stimulation, how much time you have on fixed evenings, and whether you are looking for a trainer who works without punishment. Below are the differences side by side, what separates a good school from a bad one, and the questions to ask before you choose.

In short

  • Socializing means collecting good experiences, not meeting as many puppies as possible at once. A busy group class mostly teaches a lot of puppies that other dogs are wild and pushy.

  • In person you learn one evening a week, online a few minutes every day. For a puppy who sleeps 16 to 20 hours a day, the second one weighs heavier.

  • Both can be good or bad. The question is not “hall or screen,” but: does the trainer work without punishment, in small groups, with attention for dog language?

  • A puppy school is often not necessary for socialization with other dogs; what your puppy needs is a few stable, familiar dogs and calm watching from a distance.

How your puppy shows you that something is too much is what you learn in the free webinar.

The comparison


In person (group class)

Online (with coaching)

Learning from other puppies

In a hall with 6 to 10 strange puppies; for sensitive puppies often overwhelming

At home; you arrange the meetings yourself with a few familiar, stable dogs

Pace

The group’s pace and the class schedule

Your puppy’s pace; you watch a lesson while he sleeps and practice two minutes while he is awake

Who learns along

Whoever goes to the class

The whole family sees the same lessons

Questions about your puppy

During class, with the attention split across the group

Per question in the community or in live group coaching, with a coach who knows your situation

Starting

With the next group, sometimes weeks after your puppy arrives

On the day your puppy comes home, or before

What you see

The explanation once

Every lesson as often as you want, including again during adolescence

Cost (indication)

$150 to $250 for 6 to 8 classes

One time payment with lifetime access, or through the community

Where it goes wrong

Crowded classes, play as a reward, corrections “because it has to go fast”

If you only watch and never practice, and if there is no coach to ask your questions

In summary: in person your puppy learns in a hall with 6 to 10 strange puppies, at the group’s pace, with the explanation given once, for $150 to $250 per 6 to 8 classes, and you start with the next group. Online with coaching you practice at home at your puppy’s pace, the whole family watches along, you ask your questions to the coach in the community or in live group coaching, you can rewatch every lesson, you start on the day your puppy comes home, and you pay once for lifetime access or get it through the community.

What a puppy learns in a group class, and what he does not

The argument for a puppy class is almost always socialization: your puppy has to learn how to deal with other dogs. That is true, but socializing means collecting good experiences, not meeting as many puppies as possible at once. In a hall with eight strange puppies running around each other, a sensitive puppy learns that other dogs are always wild and pushy, or he copies that behavior himself. You learn more from one stable dog than from ten insecure ones.

In our experience, a group class is often not necessary for socialization with other dogs, and puppies in traditional or overcrowded group classes sometimes learn exactly the wrong things. What does work: calmly watching dogs together from a distance, teaching your puppy that he is allowed to ignore other dogs, and setting up meetings with a few stable, familiar dogs who play politely. You can organize that in your own neighborhood, at moments when your puppy is well rested.

There is another, less visible downside to the hall: the pace. A puppy sleeps 16 to 20 hours a day and processes stimulation slowly. An hour long class on a Tuesday evening, after a day full of new things, is too much for a lot of puppies. More than one impressive activity a day switches on the self protection mechanism. At that point it is no longer socializing, it is traumatizing.

What you miss online, and how to solve it

Online, you miss the trainer standing next to you while you put the harness on or hold the leash. You solve that with video: you film a minute of your walk or of your puppy in the house and the coach watches it, in the community or during live group coaching. In practice that often gives you more than an in person class, because the coach sees your puppy in your house and your street instead of in a hall that says nothing about home.

The real pitfall of online is not the screen, it is how easy it is to skip. Anyone who watches the lessons and never practices learns nothing. So look for a course with a fixed rhythm, short practical exercises, and a place where your questions get answered by someone who knows the method.

What to look for, hall or screen

The choice between online and in person matters less than the choice of how you raise your puppy. Four questions that every school, online or in person, should be able to answer:

Question

The answer you want to hear

Do you work without punishment, including without “corrections” using voice, leash, or collar?

Yes, always. Every correction damages the bond of trust and makes you unpredictable to your puppy.

How big are the groups and are the puppies allowed to play freely?

Small (3 to 4 puppies) or one on one; play only supervised and short, never as a reward at the end.

Do you teach dog language, or only sit, down, and come?

Dog language first. A puppy who knows sit and down but whose stress signals nobody sees gets nothing out of the course.

What equipment do you recommend?

A Y shaped harness and a 10 foot (3 meter) leash. No collar, choke chain, head halter, or 3 foot (1 meter) leash.

In summary: ask every puppy course whether they work without punishment and without corrections, how big the groups are and whether the puppies play freely (small or one on one, play only short and supervised), whether they teach dog language instead of only sit, down, and come, and what equipment they recommend (a Y shaped harness and a 10 foot (3 meter) leash, no collar, choke chain, or head halter).

A school that answers any one of these questions differently is not a good place for your puppy, however close by or cheap it may be.

From our practice

More than 30,000 dog parents have taken a Stressless Dogs course, and the question coaches hear most often from people who went to an in person class before is this one: “My puppy did fine in class, but at home and on the street it goes wrong. What am I doing wrong?” Usually nothing. A puppy learns per location. What he can do in the hall he cannot do yet in your street, and the hall says little about your house. That is why online you learn in the environment where the behavior actually has to happen: at home and on your own walking route.

When to get help

For a puppy who bites out of fear, who panics when left alone, or who still finds every stimulus too much after four months, an individual behavior professional who works without force is the right step, no matter which course you follow. Choose someone who looks at pain, sleep, and stress first and only then at the behavior.

Frequently asked questions

Is an online puppy course really a puppy class?

Yes. An online course that covers potty training, biting, being alone, dog language, walking, and socializing, and where your questions are answered by coaches, counts as an individual puppy class. What is missing is the hall, and for socialization that is usually not necessary.

So should my puppy never play with other puppies?

He should, but briefly, supervised, and with the right dogs: a few stable, familiar dogs who play politely, with breaks and without it getting wild. Free play in a big group of strange puppies usually teaches your puppy the opposite of what you want.

Can I combine online and in person?

You can, as long as the in person school works without punishment and has small groups. Use the in person class for supervised meetings and the online course for everything that happens at home and on the street.

When should I start a puppy course?

On the day your puppy comes home, or preferably before that: the first weeks matter most. Online that is possible; in person you usually wait until the next group starts and until your puppy is old enough for the hall.

Sources

  • American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior. Position Statement on Puppy Socialization. On the socialization period and why early, positive, controlled experiences matter more than the number of dogs a puppy meets.

Read next

Look at what your puppy is telling you first

Whichever course you choose, everything starts with seeing when it becomes too much for your puppy: the looking away, the yawning, the brief freeze. Anyone who reads that knows when a meeting is going well and when you are better off taking distance, in the hall and on the street. You learn those signals in the free webinar Communicating With Your Dog.

Want to go through the whole puppy period at home and at your own pace, with coaches who answer your questions? Then the Stressless Communication Course was made for the two of you.

Thank you for reading, on behalf of me and all the dogs.

Amee de Bruijn

Dog Behavior Consultant & Natural Dog Trainer